Polyamory: noun:

The philosophy or state of being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time.

Says the Oxford new American dictionary

I say it is a series of questions

Sometimes in the form of

People

Other times in their natural form:

questions

would you ever ask a parent to choose a

favorite

child?

or tell that child

use one crayon

to forever translate

their colorful imagination

saying, ‘I know

you have worlds to create

but they can’t be blue

and yellow-

pick’

a sibling you love best

one place to feel safety

carve

your friend list to a favored person

your bucket list

to one beautiful dream

are you willing to trim

treasured memories

to a singular instance of joy?

No.

We say we love them all

infinitely

and differently

then why is it still controversial to do this with lovers?

Why is monogamy seen as the makings of an inherently more valuable relationship?

Do you walk by the rose bush

and refuse to inhale because you’ve already smelled lavender today?

Is the food you love most what you eat for every meal?

your favorite color always what you’re wearing?

Pwhat you pick as your passion the only thing you’re allowed to adore?

I know I would pick

my love out

in a field

of flowers

but I find comfort

in knowing

that he would never make me.

I know my capacity for love

to be kaleidoscopic

in blossom but always budding

concentric connected dreams

layered safety

stacked bigger

than my colorful imagination.

I birth a new universe every time I choose

when that choice is love.

It was years ago now

that my mom said,

“I want for you a mad and boundless love.”

I held on to that word-

boundless

and now I can hold so much more.

Published by ampersandthenwhat

Writes poems. Tries to be a better person everyday. Doesn’t have it all figured out.

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